I Love My BDSM Newbies

I particularly love newbies (BDSM first timers) who often have spent a lifetime thinking about coming to see a professional Dominatrix. It’s incredibly empowering to see an alpha male who in their normal life, high-flying, well educated, rich and professional.  However, when he comes to see me for the first time, he’s incredibly nervous and like a schoolboy being sent to the headmistress….which of course is exactly what it’s meant to be like (hi hi)

Many of my newbies arrive with the expectations of the BDSM they’ve seen in 50 Shades of Grey, so arriving at my dungeon for the first time is a real eye opener.   The anticipation, the expectations, the nervousness….it’s actually quite sweet to meet many of my clients for their first sessions. They quickly discover however, that my style of BDSM is nothing like they’ve read or seen on videos or porn sites. The most surprising thing for many newbies is that they can let their hair down and have a good giggle and a laugh with me and soon find out just how much emotion…both physically and mentally can be experienced in just one session, and for most of my clients it is a form of therapy at some level.

Many newbies worry about sharing their fetishes with me…but don’t!  I think that I’ve heard every fetish there is. Nothing really surprises me.  In fact I admire my clients, particularly the newbies who find the courage to share their deepest, darkest fantasies with me.  What shocks most people doesn’t even surprise me in the least.  What I’ve learned in meeting my clients is that once they’ve shared their kinks with me, the fun really begins.  I won’t judge you, I won’t degrade you (unless you ask me to!) and I promise that our sessions together will be some of the best times you’ve ever shared.

Before I forget, I’m an amazing secret keeper and exceptionally discreet. I’ve met the powerful, the rich and the famous but nothing that is said or done in our sessions will ever be shared…your secret will be safe and will only be shared between the two of us 🙂